I’ve just read yet another article (this one from Menopause Relief) about how you can ‘cure’ low libido during and after the menopause.
Why, when evolution at this time of life naturally lowers libido for many of us, is there this fixation and expectation that older women should automatically need and want sex?
Yes. Having thoroughly researched the subject of sex and the menopause for my book, Sex, Meaning and the Menopause, there are plenty of post menopausal women who want an active sex life. And it’s quite right they should be helped if it becomes difficult. But there are plenty who would be quite happy never to think about it again.